Friday, August 31, 2012

The Truth About Lone Peak High School.


High School. 

Where young men and women are stripped of their individualism.

 Where standing out is key, but how can one stand out in such a toxic environment? 

A place where your every move is watched under close radar, and dissected under a magnified glass.  You like gauge earrings?  Dying your hair red?  Your genetics impact your body weight, and you can’t be as skinny as the other girls?  Your parents can’t afford to spend two hundred dollars on a single pair of jeans?  You aren’t first string on the Football team; you can’t clear a double on your dirt bike.  You like Ed Hardy?  You won’t smoke or drink. 

These are only a few of the things that a student can do to automatically put themselves in the category of ‘Social Suicide’. 

Trust and acceptance are thrown out the window.   

Lone Peak is a school with excellent extra-curricular programs, awesome teachers, and all the most talented High School sports athletes in the state of Utah. 

But the pressure here is so immense, that some end up cracking under all the tension. 

Three suicides last year, if that wasn’t a red flag, what will be? 

What will it take for teenagers to learn that their social status’ aren’t everything, and accepting everyone is the only way we can survive these three years of brutal judgment they call “High School”. 

The few years when you should be having the care-free time of your life, have in reality been the hardest years of my life so far.  But Lone Peak isn’t the only school with pressures.  Every High School carries the weight of being perfect, one mistake and you can lose all your friends, and feel completely rejected.

If anyone is reading this, I hope you do something to help stop this horrible cycle.  I don’t know about you, but I sure hope my kids don’t have to go through even half of the hell I have had to go through to feel accepted during my High School years. 

12 comments:

  1. Whoa. You kept it real from the very first post. Most people have to work up to this kind of honesty. Good job.

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  2. I totally agree with Nelson. so many kids beat around the bush when they talk or post things, or they just dont even care. nice posts.

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  3. It can be hard at high school but I feel like I am slowly learning not to care what others think. I think it helps that I moved before my freshman year from far away. It helped me mature and be more confident in who I am.

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  4. Thank you for recognizing the three kids lost last year, since our own high school won't even do it. Keep Writing.

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  5. This is a great intro, it is so true.

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  6. screw highschool! It's full of freaks!!

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  7. Hey there nelson,
    You are truly inspiring, you can really make a difference at Lone Peak. I try my hardest to make a difference, but with over 2000 kids at the school, I don't feel as if I could do enough. Well, keep writing anyways.

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  8. Sorry meant, Dirtbikeaddict not nelson haha

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  9. Hey there nelson,
    You are truly inspiring, you can really make a difference at Lone Peak. I try my hardest to make a difference, but with over 2000 kids at the school, I don't feel as if I could do enough. Well, keep writing anyways.

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